The Member Spotlight:
April 1999 Edition

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Jill
"Please, do not say that I am attractive for a redhead, or that my white skin looks good on me (that it doesn't make me look anemic or sick-like). If you're really trying to wow me, maybe try, "You're hair's what caught my attention, but I'm sure there's more wonderful things beneath the hair!" I'd probably laugh out loud and tell this person that the muenster cheese is oozing from their mouth, but I'd be flattered. I wouldn't be me if I didn't say something sarcastic in return. Can't get me for nothing! Or, just talk to me about interesting things (okay, things I find interesting -- movies, music, books, hiking, outdoor things, performance art, education, etc), then, later on, tell me my hair is what drew me to you, but once you talked to me, you realized the hair is just part of a really cool package! I can dream, can't I???"

Katy
"Once I was asked (seriously) by a work-mate whether I was interested in taking part in one of those eroctic-webcam companies. He said that a friend of his was running one and that they are always looking for good-looking redheads (! yay) because they are most wanted by their customers. I thanked him for that compliment but I did not agree. ;)

The general attitute toward blondes is that they are dumb, the general attitude towards redheads is that they are horny and passionate and very good in "horizontal matters." "

Julie Robinson
"DON'T ask for me to prove that I am a true redhead. I like it when guys say my hair is pretty and different. I'd rather talk to a guy who stops me to say "Excuse me, I just wanted to tell you I think your hair is beautiful and I have never seen anything like it" instead of "Hey baby love the hair, can I see some more of it?"

Kelly Marie
"You definitely shouldn't say ANYTHING bad about my red hair, in fact you should worship it! And dont say anything cheesy or pig headed like "The word of the day, Legs, lets go back to my place and spread the word" that's so lame. If you said "I lost my phone number can I have yours?" I would laugh but I dont think Id give it to you. I think that being a redhead is the greatest gift in the world! I love having red hair, it's so beautiful and it makes me feel special and different."

Pebbles
"The one question that -really- annoys me is "Are you a true redhead?" And we all know what it is they REALLY want to know...If a guy wanted to try to pick me up, make me laugh first and foremost. That's sexy to me. I like to have fun, and hate a guy who takes himself too seriously."

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