The Member Spotlight:
November 1999 Edition

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Kelsey
"Never assume that just because I'm a redhead that I'm some kinda nympho. Guys seem to think that just coz I'm a redhead that I automatically want to sleep with them. 'Scuse me! but that just ain't the case with me. I'm tired of guys going "oh, you're a redhead, I bet you're a lot of fun *wink, wink*" Oh yea I'm also good at inflicting pain upon your eye *s*"

StrawberryPie
"Never critisize the hair! Always say what color it is! I hate when people tell me I have orange or rusty hair! I was at Crown Point a few years ago and this totally gorgeous guy came up to me and complimented my "ORANGISH" hair. Well, for one, my hair is STRAWBERRY BLONDE, and well, I'm suprised he even had the guts to say "orangish". Just be careful what you call the color of our hair-ok?!"

Fox
"All of the conversations I've been involved in about hair colour have been interesting. It's surprising how many people are closet-red head lovers. I suppose, since I'm usually the only red head in a group, I've been the catalyst for these conversations. That's pretty interesting for me. I love finding out what makes an individual tick and his/her reasons behind it."

MellyBelly
"Forget about the hair. Don't mention the hair, unless it's one tiny comment like, "You hair looks nice today." We know that it was our hair color that attracted you in the first place, so don't dwell on it unless we ask you to. Trust us.. it gets dull after a while, and you then end up looking like a dork."

Lady Anaitis
"DON'T make it obvious that the only reason you're talking to us is because of our hair. Make friendly conversation, don't be overzealous or jerky. We're normal people. We just happen to be blessed with red hair! :o)

I think everyone has their weaknesses - mine being big cuddly guys rather than skinny ones, so I don't think there is anything worng with redheads. But don't let your fetish get in the way of true love - it could be with a brunette or blonde too!"

Donna
"This guy asked me out to a nice restaurant. All I was interested in, regarding this date, was getting a free meal at this restaurant. Yum Yum. Right off the bat he asked me *how I felt about having red hair*. I thought he was kinda strange. But he was a Psychologist so maybe that was why he asked weird questions. So as I stuffed my face, I told him I felt great about it. Then he asked how I felt about having white skin...I told him I felt fine about having white white skin. This conversation lasted a long time, with him asking how I felt in a swimsuit, etc... I felt like a scientific specimen he was examining.

I thought...strange dude but good food.

Later, when we went out more he said, "I'm not interested in a serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with. I said, "Really? That's *exactly* what I'm looking for." Anyhow, this turned out to be the guy who wrote me a long letter proposing marriage. We flew to Vegas on the notion that we might get married. Guess he must hav eliked that white skin more than he thought. :) We have been married 5 years. And he's still curious about my red hair, white skin and what goes on inside my mind..."

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